when Caleb said his life felt like a field after a storm, flattened and muddy, I knew not to offer a speech. I told him what my grandfather would have told him: “We’ll get it standing again.”
When I finally drove home, I was tired enough that my hands ached from gripping the wheel. But I did not go to the house first. Maybe that sounds strange to people who do not own land that has passed through generations. But after being gone, I needed to put eyes on it.