play the victim later.
Instead, I spoke in a calm, even voice. “That is perfectly fine. You will not have to marry me.”
For a brief second, relief flickered across his face. He thought he had escaped a difficult conversation with very little damage to his pride. That was when I shared the one detail that erased every trace of relief in the room.
The Work That Held It All Together
To understand what happened next, you have to understand a little about what I do for a living. I